The last two months have been filled with crazy chaos, doctors, therapists, family, friends, and everything in between.
Our family and Jacob have finally begun to settle into our definition of normal - whatever that might be.
KC has begun light duty at work after breaking and dislocating his ankle and ripping all the tendons holding the two bones together. It has been a long, hard and painful process which a an even longer road that he must continue to travel, but he's a fighter (and he's tired of being at home in the middle of the chaos!). Now, after nearly 5 months, he is still only at about 60% usability of what he used to be. He can only walk for a little while before he begins to experience significant pain, often walking with a cane, and by the end of the day, his ankle invariably ends up swelling to about twice its normal size.
Elisha is neck deep in high-school teen-ager stuff. She's at the tail end of driver's ed, competing in the regionals of Junior Olympics for track, going to volleyball camp next week, and spending as much time as possible doing conditioning for varsity volleyball in the fall. I look at her schedule and I'm exhausted just thinking about it.
Courtney is still Courtney. Funny, feisty and FAST. With KC and Nathan down for the count, Elisha and I have found ourselves doing a lot of chasing after our ornery little toddler who does the exact opposite of what we ask her to do, running away giggling in the process. I've already cursed her with children just like her when she grows up - twice! Now I hope she ends up with twins! Bahahahahaha!!!
Jacob, although a tiny little tike, is no longer an infant. It dawned on me only a couple days ago that he has come a long way from the sickly little heart baby in February.
Each and every day he progresses with leaps and bounds, much to the delight of this therapists. At 8 1/2 months he is rolling EVERYWHERE. One minute he will be at our feet, we'll look away to talk to Courtney, look back and he will be across the room playing with a toy. Elisha tried to put him down one day last week and rather than laying him down, she inadvertently put him on his feet. He stood there by himself for 3 seconds!! He's not quite sitting on his own, but each day he gets better and I figure he's only a couple weeks away from unassisted sitting. He's been toying with crawling, but right now finds it easier to just use his legs to catapult himself in the direction he wants to go, much like a frog but not nearly as graceful.
Jake has also found his voice. We've been working with him exhaustively to make noise - ANY noise. Who knew that once I got a quiet child, I'd be freaked out that he was so quiet?! So, we do lots of therapy with him, and he's finally beginning to pronounce his consonants - lots of da da's, ga ga's, ba ba's and such. His speech is still significantly delayed, but we're finally getting something out of him, and I'm OK with that.
And, my favorite announcement of the month, he's FINALLY not sleeping in our bed any more! Jacob is quite the cuddler - he likes to sleep with his face planted in a pillow, with a blanked over it, or in my case, firmly planted in the base of my back or in my rib cage. I've spent month sleeping (if you call it that) stick straight for fear that I'd roll over him in my sleep. He's finally in his own bed and I can sleep soundly! Thank heaven for the little things.